Perhaps the dignity of our lives and our passing is marked less by the trappings of white gloves and shiny cars than by the ways in which those whom our lives have touched gather around us to pay respect.
Who has earned the dignity of your undying respect?
I dislike responding to this query from my personal view. Several people recently have mentioned that they think of me as a guidepost for them or they respect me in several social action positions.
I’m really a follower, not a leader in this aspect, but I think maybe they are reflecting on the fact that they can see that I’m not a “spring chicken” anymore and that I keep engaging in activities that may make some positive changes.
Who says followers don’t deserve the dignity of undying respect? What would leaders be without any followers? It can take just as much effort, courage, etc. to follow as to lead. And since we can always be leaders, if one follower inspires others also to follow, that is worthy of respect in by book.
Barack Obama. Hillary Clinton. Walter Cronkite. My parents.
But what the above post brought most to my mind is that it would be so nice if we would tell those of our personal acquaintance whom we respect, like, love or admire, while they are still living. Who knows whether they find out who gathered to honor them after they died?
How true, Margaret! Words spoken before rather than after are to be treasured; I realize that that is the important way to show respect. Thanks!